June 5th, 2025
by Pastor Jeremy Good
by Pastor Jeremy Good
Let me guess—you've probably mumbled your way through the Lord's Prayer at a wedding or funeral, trying to figure out which version everyone else was using. Maybe you've wondered if you're supposed to say "debts" or "trespasses," or felt that awkward pause when half the room says "Amen" and the other half keeps going with "For yours is the kingdom..."
You're not alone. Even though the Lord's Prayer contains some of the most famous words in human history, most of us have never truly stopped to consider what Jesus was trying to teach us about prayer—and God Himself.
You're not alone. Even though the Lord's Prayer contains some of the most famous words in human history, most of us have never truly stopped to consider what Jesus was trying to teach us about prayer—and God Himself.

The Revolutionary Context
Picture this: you're sitting on a hillside overlooking the Sea of Galilee about 2,000 years ago. The Roman Empire controls everything around you, including your homeland of Israel. In the crowd listening to this rabbi named Jesus, you've got a fascinating mix of people—Jewish worshippers raised on Old Testament traditions, elite religious leaders (the Pharisees and Sadducees), and pagans who follow Greek and Roman mythology with gods like Zeus and Apollo.
This wasn't exactly a homogeneous Sunday morning congregation. These were people with radically different ideas about who God was and how—or if—you could actually communicate with him.
Jesus was about to challenge everything they thought they knew about prayer.
This wasn't exactly a homogeneous Sunday morning congregation. These were people with radically different ideas about who God was and how—or if—you could actually communicate with him.
Jesus was about to challenge everything they thought they knew about prayer.
What Prayer Isn't
Before Jesus gave us the Lord's Prayer, he spent time telling his audience what prayer definitely wasn't. In Matthew 6:5-8, he addresses two major misconceptions that sound surprisingly relevant today.
First, prayer isn't a spectacle.
The religious elite of Jesus' day had turned prayer into performance art. They would stand in synagogues and on street corners, reciting long, elaborate prayers to be seen and admired by others. Jesus said they "have received their reward in full"—meaning the applause and admiration was all they were going to get.
Instead, Jesus said, "When you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you" (Matthew 6:6).
Think about that for a moment. This is one of the few times in the Bible where we're explicitly promised a reward for doing something. Not for being perfect, not for having it all figured out—just for having an honest, private conversation with God.
Instead, Jesus said, "When you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you" (Matthew 6:6).
Think about that for a moment. This is one of the few times in the Bible where we're explicitly promised a reward for doing something. Not for being perfect, not for having it all figured out—just for having an honest, private conversation with God.
Second, prayer isn't mindless repetition.
The pagans in Jesus' audience believed their gods were basically having a 24/7 party on Mount Olympus, barely paying attention to human affairs. So they would repeat their prayers over and over, hoping to eventually catch a god's attention during a break in the divine festivities.
Jesus said, "Don't be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him" (Matthew 6:8).
This doesn't mean God doesn't want to hear from you—quite the opposite. It means he's already fully aware of your situation, your struggles, and your needs. He's not distracted, absent, or disinterested.
Jesus said, "Don't be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him" (Matthew 6:8).
This doesn't mean God doesn't want to hear from you—quite the opposite. It means he's already fully aware of your situation, your struggles, and your needs. He's not distracted, absent, or disinterested.
So What Is Prayer?
Prayer is active communication with God. It's not about empty rituals or perfect words—it's about relationship.
The apostle Paul gives us a beautiful picture of this in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, where he tells us to "rejoice always, pray without ceasing, and give thanks in everything." This doesn't mean you need to walk around audibly praying 24/7 (though your coworkers might find that interesting). It means maintaining an ongoing awareness of God's presence throughout your day.
Something good happens? Take a moment to thank God. Facing a difficult conversation? Ask for wisdom. About to say something you shouldn't? Pause and ask for help. This is what it means to "pray without ceasing"—living in active communication with God.
The apostle Paul gives us a beautiful picture of this in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, where he tells us to "rejoice always, pray without ceasing, and give thanks in everything." This doesn't mean you need to walk around audibly praying 24/7 (though your coworkers might find that interesting). It means maintaining an ongoing awareness of God's presence throughout your day.
Something good happens? Take a moment to thank God. Facing a difficult conversation? Ask for wisdom. About to say something you shouldn't? Pause and ask for help. This is what it means to "pray without ceasing"—living in active communication with God.
The Template, Not the Script
Here's something that might surprise you: the Lord's Prayer wasn't meant to be mindlessly recited. When Jesus introduced it in Matthew 6:9, he said, "Pray in this manner"—not "pray these exact words."
The Lord's Prayer is actually a template, like a Microsoft Word document template. It gives you the structure, but you're supposed to fill in your own details.
Take the famous line "Give us this day our daily bread" (Matthew 6:11). If you're reading this, you probably have food in your refrigerator and aren't worried about where your next meal is coming from. But maybe you're worried about whether your job will survive the next round of layoffs. Your prayer might be, "Give me this day reliable work." Or perhaps you're struggling with a difficult relationship: "Give me this day the patience to love well."
The template adapts to your life, your circumstances, your real needs.
The Lord's Prayer is actually a template, like a Microsoft Word document template. It gives you the structure, but you're supposed to fill in your own details.
Take the famous line "Give us this day our daily bread" (Matthew 6:11). If you're reading this, you probably have food in your refrigerator and aren't worried about where your next meal is coming from. But maybe you're worried about whether your job will survive the next round of layoffs. Your prayer might be, "Give me this day reliable work." Or perhaps you're struggling with a difficult relationship: "Give me this day the patience to love well."
The template adapts to your life, your circumstances, your real needs.
The Revolutionary Word: "Father"
Now we get to the part that would have absolutely blown the minds of Jesus' original audience. He began this prayer with "Our Father in heaven" (Matthew 6:9).
This was revolutionary. Here's why:
For the pagans in the crowd, gods were completely unassociated with people. In Greek mythology, when Prometheus (the god of forethought) had compassion on humans and gave them fire, the other gods were so enraged that Zeus chained him to a rock for eternity and sent a bird to torture him daily. The message was clear: gods and humans don't mix.
For the Jewish people, God was certainly real and powerful, but also distant and separated. Old Testament scholars were so afraid of saying God's name incorrectly that they changed it entirely. Their prayers were memorized, rigid, and impersonal because they believed they were addressing a God who was unreachably holy.
Then Jesus comes along and says you can call God "Abba"—an Aramaic term of intimate endearment, like "Dad" or "Papa."
Imagine the shock. This wasn't just about religion or ritual—this was about relationship. Jesus was saying that the Creator of the universe wants to have the kind of close, personal relationship with you that you might have with a loving father.
This was revolutionary. Here's why:
For the pagans in the crowd, gods were completely unassociated with people. In Greek mythology, when Prometheus (the god of forethought) had compassion on humans and gave them fire, the other gods were so enraged that Zeus chained him to a rock for eternity and sent a bird to torture him daily. The message was clear: gods and humans don't mix.
For the Jewish people, God was certainly real and powerful, but also distant and separated. Old Testament scholars were so afraid of saying God's name incorrectly that they changed it entirely. Their prayers were memorized, rigid, and impersonal because they believed they were addressing a God who was unreachably holy.
Then Jesus comes along and says you can call God "Abba"—an Aramaic term of intimate endearment, like "Dad" or "Papa."
Imagine the shock. This wasn't just about religion or ritual—this was about relationship. Jesus was saying that the Creator of the universe wants to have the kind of close, personal relationship with you that you might have with a loving father.
But He's Still God
Before you get too comfortable with this buddy-buddy relationship, notice that Jesus says "Our Father in heaven." Even though we can call God "Dad," we must never lose our reverence for who he is.
It's like working for the same company for years and developing a friendship with your boss. You might grab coffee together, talk about life outside work, even hang out on weekends. But inevitably, something happens to remind you: "Oh yeah, this person still signs my paycheck and could fire me tomorrow."
God is your loving Father, but he's also the sovereign Creator of the universe. He deserves both intimacy and reverence.
It's like working for the same company for years and developing a friendship with your boss. You might grab coffee together, talk about life outside work, even hang out on weekends. But inevitably, something happens to remind you: "Oh yeah, this person still signs my paycheck and could fire me tomorrow."
God is your loving Father, but he's also the sovereign Creator of the universe. He deserves both intimacy and reverence.
The Perfect Father
Here's what makes this even more amazing: unlike your earthly father, your heavenly Father is perfect. I don't know what your relationship with your dad was like—maybe it was wonderful, maybe it was complicated, maybe it was painful. But even the best earthly fathers aren't perfect.
Your heavenly Father is perfect in his love, perfect in his justice, perfect in his mercy. And he wants to give you good gifts.
Jesus explains this beautifully in Matthew 7:9-11: "Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!"
Even imperfect earthly fathers usually want what's best for their children. How much more does your perfect heavenly Father want what's truly best for you?
Your heavenly Father is perfect in his love, perfect in his justice, perfect in his mercy. And he wants to give you good gifts.
Jesus explains this beautifully in Matthew 7:9-11: "Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!"
Even imperfect earthly fathers usually want what's best for their children. How much more does your perfect heavenly Father want what's truly best for you?
The Word That Changes Everything
There's one more crucial word in "Our Father in heaven"—the word "our." Jesus could have said "my Father," and at other times he did. But here, he's making it clear that this intimate relationship with God isn't exclusive to him. It's available to all of us.
God wants to be your Father too. But like any relationship, this one requires a choice on your part. It's established when you choose to turn from going your own way and instead follow God's ways—when you accept the forgiveness that Jesus offers and decide to trust him with your life.
God wants to be your Father too. But like any relationship, this one requires a choice on your part. It's established when you choose to turn from going your own way and instead follow God's ways—when you accept the forgiveness that Jesus offers and decide to trust him with your life.
Making It Personal
So here's the question that matters most: Is God your Father? Do you have a personal relationship with him?
If you're not sure, or if this whole concept feels foreign to you, that's okay. Many of us didn't grow up with this understanding of who God is or how he wants to relate to us. The beautiful thing is that it's never too late to start.
Maybe you've been thinking of God as distant, angry, or disinterested. Maybe you've seen him as a cosmic killjoy who wants to ruin your fun. Or perhaps you've wondered if he even exists at all.
Jesus' teaching about prayer reveals a radically different picture: a God who knows you completely, loves you perfectly, and wants to be in relationship with you. A God who isn't offended by your questions, threatened by your doubts, or surprised by your struggles.
If you're not sure, or if this whole concept feels foreign to you, that's okay. Many of us didn't grow up with this understanding of who God is or how he wants to relate to us. The beautiful thing is that it's never too late to start.
Maybe you've been thinking of God as distant, angry, or disinterested. Maybe you've seen him as a cosmic killjoy who wants to ruin your fun. Or perhaps you've wondered if he even exists at all.
Jesus' teaching about prayer reveals a radically different picture: a God who knows you completely, loves you perfectly, and wants to be in relationship with you. A God who isn't offended by your questions, threatened by your doubts, or surprised by your struggles.
Reflection Questions
As you think about what this means for your life, consider these questions:
- What has shaped your view of God? Has it been positive experiences, negative ones, or maybe just cultural assumptions you've never examined?
- How do you typically approach prayer? Do you see it as a religious duty, a last resort in crisis, or something else entirely?
- What would change if you really believed God wanted to have a close, personal relationship with you? How might that affect your daily decisions, your relationships, your sense of purpose?
- What do you need to ask your heavenly Father for today? Remember, this isn't about perfect words or proper formulas—it's about honest communication with someone who already knows your situation and wants what's best for you.
- If God truly is a perfect Father who gives good gifts, what does that mean for the difficult circumstances you might be facing right now?
Your Next Step
Maybe this conversation about prayer and relationship with God has stirred something in you. Maybe you're curious but not sure where to go from here. Maybe you've been thinking about spiritual things more lately but haven't known how to explore them.
Here's what I want you to know: you don't have to have it all figured out. You don't need to clean up your life first or memorize a bunch of religious rules. The invitation to know God as your Father is open to you right now, exactly as you are.
If you'd like to explore this further, to ask questions, or to learn more about what it means to have a personal relationship with God, I want to invite you to join us this Sunday. We'd love to meet you, answer your questions, and help you take whatever next step feels right for you.
You don't need to come with perfect knowledge or unwavering faith. Just come with your questions, your curiosity, and your willingness to explore. Come and discover what it might mean for the Creator of the universe to be not just God, but your Father.
We gather every Sunday at 9:30 & 11:00 a.m. at 1750 Beach St. in Fort Worth. Coffee's always on, the conversation is real, and you're always welcome. Because if there's one thing Jesus made clear, it's that God's family has room for everyone who wants to be part of it.
Hope to see you there.
Here's what I want you to know: you don't have to have it all figured out. You don't need to clean up your life first or memorize a bunch of religious rules. The invitation to know God as your Father is open to you right now, exactly as you are.
If you'd like to explore this further, to ask questions, or to learn more about what it means to have a personal relationship with God, I want to invite you to join us this Sunday. We'd love to meet you, answer your questions, and help you take whatever next step feels right for you.
You don't need to come with perfect knowledge or unwavering faith. Just come with your questions, your curiosity, and your willingness to explore. Come and discover what it might mean for the Creator of the universe to be not just God, but your Father.
We gather every Sunday at 9:30 & 11:00 a.m. at 1750 Beach St. in Fort Worth. Coffee's always on, the conversation is real, and you're always welcome. Because if there's one thing Jesus made clear, it's that God's family has room for everyone who wants to be part of it.
Hope to see you there.
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