January 20th, 2025
by Pastor Matt Sturdevant
by Pastor Matt Sturdevant
As a busy professional and parent, you might find yourself wondering about the bigger questions in life. What really matters? How can we make a lasting impact on those we care about? While career achievements and providing for our families are important, there's something profound about caring for the spiritual well-being of those we love.
The Power of Caring Beyond the Physical
Think about how much we invest in our loved ones' physical, educational, and emotional needs. We research the best schools, schedule regular doctor visits, and ensure they're eating well. But what about their spiritual journey? This article explores how to meaningfully engage in praying for the people we care about, even if you're new to the concept of prayer or organized religion.
Understanding Why Prayer Matters
Before diving into the "how," let's talk about the "why." In the Bible, there's a fascinating collection of stories in Luke chapter 15 that illustrates why caring about others' spiritual journey matters. These stories weren't written as religious rules, but as illustrations to help us understand a deeper truth.
The Three Stories That Change Everything
- The Lost Sheep: A shepherd leaves 99 safe sheep to find one that's lost
- The Lost Coin: A woman turns her house upside down searching for one valuable coin
- The Lost Son: A father welcomes back his rebellious child with celebration instead of judgment
These stories paint a picture of what genuine love looks like - it's active, searching, and celebrating when what was lost is found. Whether you're new to faith or just exploring, these stories reveal something profound about how much each person matters.
Practical Steps for People Who Care
1. Be Informed and Understanding
You don't need to have all the answers to care about someone's spiritual journey. Start by being aware of the people in your life who might be open to exploring faith questions with you.
2. Be Alert to the People Around You
Take a moment to think about:
Reflection Question: Who in your life might be open to conversations about faith and meaning?
- Family members
- Friends
- Coworkers
- Neighbors
- Regular contacts (like that barista you see every morning)
Reflection Question: Who in your life might be open to conversations about faith and meaning?
3. Be Proactive in Building Relationships
The Bible offers this practical advice in Colossians 4:5-6:
"Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace."
This isn't about pushing beliefs on others. It's about being authentic and available for meaningful conversations.
"Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace."
This isn't about pushing beliefs on others. It's about being authentic and available for meaningful conversations.
4. Be Engaged in Your Community
You're not in your neighborhood by accident. Acts 17:26 suggests that where we live matters - we're placed in our communities for a purpose. This means your daily routines and regular interactions can have deeper meaning.
Making It Personal: The "One Person" Approach
Instead of feeling overwhelmed by trying to change the world, focus on one person. Think about:
Action Step: Choose one person to consistently pray for and intentionally invest in building a deeper relationship with them.
- Who do you naturally connect with?
- Who has shown interest in spiritual conversations?
- Who might be going through a life transition and looking for meaning?
Action Step: Choose one person to consistently pray for and intentionally invest in building a deeper relationship with them.
Real-Life Application
Here's how this might look in your daily life:
Reflection Question: What regular activities in your life could become opportunities for meaningful connection?
- Morning coffee run: Pay attention to the people you regularly see
- School pickup: Connect with other parents beyond surface-level chat
- Workplace: Be open to deeper conversations when they naturally arise
- Neighborhood: Consider walking or driving around your area while praying for your neighbors
Reflection Question: What regular activities in your life could become opportunities for meaningful connection?
Breaking Down Barriers
Maybe you're thinking, "This all sounds good, but I'm not sure about religion myself." That's okay! The beautiful thing about caring for others is that you don't need to have everything figured out. Your own questions and journey can actually make you more relatable to others who are also exploring.
A Personal Invitation
If you're curious about exploring these ideas further, we'd love to have you visit Hope Church. We understand that walking into a church can feel intimidating, especially if you haven't been in a while (or ever). Here's what you can expect:
- Casual, welcoming atmosphere
- No pressure to participate
- Clear, relevant messages that connect with real life
- Excellent children's programs
- Coffee (because we all need coffee)
Planning Your Visit:
- Service Times: Sundays at 9:30 & 11:00 a.m.
- Location: 1750 Beach St., Fort Worth, TX, 76103
- Children's Check-in: Arrive 10-15 minutes early for first-time registration, or Plan your child's visit here
- What to Wear: Come as you are - really!
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