April 17th, 2025
by Matt Sturdevant
by Matt Sturdevant
In our fast-paced world of constant notifications, emails, and messages, words surround us everywhere. But how many of these words truly matter? How many actually shape our lives and the lives of those around us?
There's a beautiful passage in the Bible that highlights three important ways our words can have genuine impact. Found in Colossians 4:2-6, it reads:
"Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison—that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak. Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person."
You might be thinking, "That's nice, but what does a 2,000-year-old letter have to do with my life today?" As it turns out, these ancient words offer remarkably practical guidance for how we can use our words—in prayer, in sharing truth, and in our daily interactions—to create meaningful impact in our lives and communities.
There's a beautiful passage in the Bible that highlights three important ways our words can have genuine impact. Found in Colossians 4:2-6, it reads:
"Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison—that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak. Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person."
You might be thinking, "That's nice, but what does a 2,000-year-old letter have to do with my life today?" As it turns out, these ancient words offer remarkably practical guidance for how we can use our words—in prayer, in sharing truth, and in our daily interactions—to create meaningful impact in our lives and communities.

The Power of Persistent Prayer
Think of prayer as being as natural and necessary as breathing. Just as your body needs oxygen, your spirit needs connection with God. But what does effective prayer look like? The passage highlights four key characteristics:
1. Be Faithful
"Continue steadfastly" suggests persistence. There's an interesting tension here—we're called to be bold in asking while also accepting God's answer when it comes. Sometimes God answers exactly as we hoped, and sometimes quite differently. The goal isn't to bend God's will to match yours, but to align your desires with what God wants for you.
2. Be Watchful
This literally means "stay awake"—and yes, that can be a challenge! If you're like me, early morning prayer might require a cup of coffee first. But being watchful goes beyond just staying physically alert. It means being aware of what's happening in your life, your family, your community, and the world. You can't pray about situations you aren't aware of.
3. Be Thankful
Gratitude should be the foundation of our prayer life. As someone exploring faith, you might wonder what you have to be thankful for spiritually. Consider these starting points:
- God's presence in your life
- The provision of your basic needs
- The promise of forgiveness and new beginnings
- God's faithfulness to keep His promises
4. Be Purposeful
As one commentator wisely noted: "The purpose of prayer is not getting man's will done in heaven but getting God's will done on earth." Prayer isn't about giving God instructions. It's about seeking alignment with what God already wants to do.
The Priority of Proclamation
The passage continues with Paul asking the Colossians to pray for him—not for his comfort or release from prison, interestingly, but for opportunities to share the message of Christ clearly.
Paul was imprisoned when he wrote this letter, yet his primary concern wasn't changing his circumstances. Instead, he was focused on living faithfully within them. He wasn't asking for prison doors to open but for "doors of opportunity" to share truth with others.
What a perspective shift! Paul considered being a faithful minister more important than being a free man. His prayers weren't centered on personal safety or material help but on his spiritual character and the impact of his message.
This challenges us to consider our own priorities. When we pray, are we mainly concerned with our comfort and convenience? Or are we asking God to use us—whatever our circumstances—to share His love and truth with others?
Paul was imprisoned when he wrote this letter, yet his primary concern wasn't changing his circumstances. Instead, he was focused on living faithfully within them. He wasn't asking for prison doors to open but for "doors of opportunity" to share truth with others.
What a perspective shift! Paul considered being a faithful minister more important than being a free man. His prayers weren't centered on personal safety or material help but on his spiritual character and the impact of his message.
This challenges us to consider our own priorities. When we pray, are we mainly concerned with our comfort and convenience? Or are we asking God to use us—whatever our circumstances—to share His love and truth with others?
The Practice of Purposeful Living
Finally, the passage addresses how we should interact with people who don't share our faith. "Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person."
You've probably heard the saying "actions speak louder than words." This section acknowledges that reality. While sharing your faith certainly involves words, it's about so much more. It's about living a life that backs up what you say.
The message here is clear: walk the talk. If your lifestyle contradicts your stated beliefs, people won't hear what you're saying. Your actions will drown out your words.
Living with this kind of integrity means:
You've probably heard the saying "actions speak louder than words." This section acknowledges that reality. While sharing your faith certainly involves words, it's about so much more. It's about living a life that backs up what you say.
The message here is clear: walk the talk. If your lifestyle contradicts your stated beliefs, people won't hear what you're saying. Your actions will drown out your words.
Living with this kind of integrity means:
- Being intentional about how you spend your time
- Speaking graciously, even in disagreement
- Adding "salt" to your conversations—that is, making them meaningful and preservative rather than destructive
- Being prepared to answer questions about your faith in a way that makes sense to others
Putting It Into Practice
So how do you apply these ancient words to your modern life? Here are some practical steps:
For Your Prayer Life
- Set aside regular time. Start small if you're new to prayer—even seven minutes a day makes a difference.
- Keep a prayer journal. Track your requests and God's responses to help you see patterns over time.
- Pray with others. Join with friends or family to share this experience.
- Use a simple framework. Try the ACTS model: Adoration (praising God), Confession (acknowledging mistakes), Thanksgiving (expressing gratitude), and Supplication (making requests).
For Sharing Your Faith
- Know your story. How has faith impacted your life? Be ready to share that authentically.
- Listen more than you speak. Understanding others' perspectives comes before sharing your own.
- Look for natural opportunities. Forced conversations rarely go well.
- Pray for open doors. Like Paul, ask God to create natural opportunities for meaningful conversations.
For Living with Integrity
- Identify inconsistencies. Where might others see a gap between what you profess and how you live?
- Cultivate gracious speech. Practice speaking with kindness, even in disagreement.
- Be intentional with your time. Ask yourself regularly: "Am I making the most of this moment?"
- Prepare thoughtful responses. Consider common questions about faith and think through your answers.
Reflection Questions
- How would you describe your current prayer life? Which of the four characteristics (faithful, watchful, thankful, purposeful) is strongest for you? Which needs more development?
- Think about a difficult circumstance in your life right now. Like Paul, how might you focus less on changing the circumstances and more on being faithful within them?
- If someone were to observe your life for a week, would they see consistency between your stated beliefs and your actions? Where might there be disconnects?
- What "open doors" for sharing your faith might already exist in your life? With whom do you have natural opportunities for meaningful conversations?
- How "gracious" and "seasoned with salt" is your speech? Do you find yourself speaking differently with those who share your beliefs versus those who don't?
The Connected Life
These three elements—prayer, proclamation, and purposeful living—don't exist in isolation. They form a connected cycle that fuels spiritual growth:
When these elements work together, they create a life of meaningful impact—a life where your words truly matter.
- Prayer connects you with God, aligning your heart with His purposes.
- This alignment empowers authentic proclamation of truth in your words.
- Your words gain credibility through purposeful living that demonstrates their truth.
- And this authentic life drives you back to prayer for continued strength and guidance.
When these elements work together, they create a life of meaningful impact—a life where your words truly matter.
Join Our Community
If you're intrigued by these ideas and want to explore them further in community, we'd love to have you join us for worship at Hope Church. We're a group of imperfect people on a journey of faith together, and newcomers are always welcome.
Sunday Services: 9:30 # 11:00AM
Location: 1750 Beach St., Fort Worth, TX 76103.
Children's Programs: Available for all kids birth-5th grade.
What to Expect: Casual dress, contemporary music, and practical teaching
You don't need any special knowledge or background to attend. Come as you are, bring your questions, and discover how ancient wisdom can transform your modern life.
Remember, wherever you are on your spiritual journey, there's always a next step. We'd be honored to help you discover yours.
Sunday Services: 9:30 # 11:00AM
Location: 1750 Beach St., Fort Worth, TX 76103.
Children's Programs: Available for all kids birth-5th grade.
What to Expect: Casual dress, contemporary music, and practical teaching
You don't need any special knowledge or background to attend. Come as you are, bring your questions, and discover how ancient wisdom can transform your modern life.
Remember, wherever you are on your spiritual journey, there's always a next step. We'd be honored to help you discover yours.
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